"If More Women Had Access To The Wealth Of Knowledge And Experience Revealed Inside The Book "Understanding The Dynamics Of Marriage"... I guarantee There Will Be Reduced Infidelity, Cheating Spouse And Divorce" ...Lucy Okoh
Why do we have so many marital problems surfacing just months/few years after marriage?
Why are there so many single mums in our country.?
Why are there so many divorcees who now claim to be feminist out of bitterness of what they have experienced?
Why do we have so many cheating spouses that it has become a norm in today's society?
My Name is Lucy Okoh,
I am mother of 4 wonderful God-fearing kids;
All products of a wonderful marriage of over 26 short years to my Handsome Husband, Dr. Antoni Okoh.
To be honest, these 26 years feels like it was yesterday because our love remains fresh and has waxed stronger over the course of our 26 years union.
But besides been happily marriage for 26years which has given me wealth of knowledge and experience on handling matters that arises in marriage,
I am also a trained marriage counselor who has been actively involved in working with couples to make their homes strong.
Working as a trained marriage counselor for over 15 years and being a Pastor' wife has exposed me to lots of issues couples face in their marriage.
And my honest observation is that..
It just breaks my heart!
Okay before you start thinking I became an authority on this topic because I am Mrs. Do-No-Wrong...
I'm far from it!
I will be the first to tell you marriage takes dedication, devotion and spiritual warfare.
The truth is I have had my fair share of marital issues too but I have seen them as a learning process.
Truth be told, No marriage is free of challenges...But it's how we come out of it that is important
While so many come out of the issues in their marriage broken, sad, divorce, single because of wrong information or no guidance.
I have been able to come out of many marriage issues stronger and happier.
With the help of my wonderful husband standing strong by my side, We have been able to overcome every challenge life has thrown at us.
And we are still waxing strong even after 26 years of marriage.
From my numerous encounter with singles and married being a marriage counselor and a Pastor's wife,
I noticed that majority of people struggling with relationship or marriage have been exposed to damaging information or wrong advice from people around them.
More also, I particularly noticed that there are few people who are talking about this topic because it's a very sensitive topic and no one wants to be blamed for other people's action or wrongdoings.
At first, I was contented with helping people around me but as time passed, my hunger to point the singles in the right direction and equip them with the right information became unquenchable.
My passion for saving struggling marriages and helping fortified the good ones became strong it kept me up at night.
I knew I couldn't continue to turn deaf ears to the silent cries of many people out there struggling with their love life or marriage.
Or keep the information (I have been sharing with people around me which has been helping them wax strong) to myself.
Also, my beautiful daughter (Joanna) is coming of age and without having the right information at her disposal, you might also fall victim of the wrong information floating around in this age.
All the above reasons motivated me and I decided to put everything I know into a guide (which I'll rather call a marriage tool) so that I can reach out to more single and married people;
Singles who need to know what they are getting into before marriage and also know what to expect.
Couples who are struggling with their marriage but desperately need help.
Families that are beyond my reach.
And also give a second chance to couples that still wants to get back together.
And after one years of gathering my thoughts, expertise, experience backed up with real life examples.
I was able to complete a book that I think should be made compulsory to every home who wants to enjoy the bliss of marriage.
Introducing my gift to you...
My guess is you cannot wait to lay your hands on this marriage tool I created for you, but here is one big question I need to ask you first.
This is a question I am often asked by different sets of people; the married, singles, male and female.
And my reply is; (Understanding The Dynamics Of Marriage) was created to demystify not only marriage but also handling relationship, children, money etc.
So It's a must have for anyone who is married or to the single is wants to get it right when s/he gets married.
Going into marriage knowing what to expect and how to handle it give you the edge you need to navigate the stormy waters of marriage.
And I personally know it is a tool that you need to have, So instead of assuming of (Understanding The Dynamics Of Marriage) as just another book you can do without.
See it as a necessary tool of marriage you must equip yourself with to be better.
I strongly perceive you hold your relationship and marriage in high esteem is why you have read up till this point.
So I know your future is very important to you, your happiness and that of your partners and children(unborn) is also important.
And I know you will make the right investment into yourself to get it right from now on.
But if you decide your happiness in marriage is not has valuable, then I will understand and wish you all the best in life.
I look forward to you writing me in few weeks from now after you have equipped yourself with my gift to you and it has helped turn your relationship/marriage around.
Pastor. Lucy Okoh. (Marriage counselor)